You become a sexual anthropologist. This page offers a multiplicity of information to readers, but it also provides information to eyes and minds that should not be reading such information. When it's only about one spouse getting pleasure and calling the shots, the other spouse will not enjoy but will want the act to end quickly and walk away or sleep. And even then, it's not really having sex. I want to tell her, "If you don't love me anymore, then we can split up and move on," but we have a child together, and I don't think that's right or fair to our daughter. But make no mistake about it:
Married and not had sex in 4 years. My wife has NO sex drive.
I think it Submitted by Anonymous on August 8, - 2: Then I found out he cheated on me with a friend, and we called it quits. No wonder they're tight-lipped. Where can I find an article about the man not wanting sex? Because if you really want to play that game The question mark should be elusive. A child of 6 these days can see the cover of Cosmo in a grocery store and then ask her mother "What does it mean when it say Have Better Orgasms".
Here's the truth about why women 'go off' sex in long-term relationships
Put the stress aside, stop thinking about the baby, about the bills, about your responsibilities, whether your skin is too sweaty, whether you're making too much noise, whether you're doing it right, whether you are hard or wet enough. I learned when me and my husband attended couples therapy that men find connection through sex whereas women tend to find it through non-sexual intimacy. You know that girl you married? And you know what gets women hot? I'm not just with him for that but I feel so low and worthless no self esteem and feel so sorry for my little boy because im not doing many activities with him because I don't feel like I have the energy. I read more than 10 different books during the summer, half of which were more or less useless and shallow. I've been trying to figure out why the desire to have sex with my boyfriend started declining after the th year and now my libido is just really almost non-existent.
You need to understand that most women are like this and If you think it's garbage I'd suggest trying other men. These are the most inspirational women in history. McGrath also said to remember to take things slow: Oh, and one last bit of advice: Not that I wasn't interested in the idea - but it just didn't do anything for me. Loading comments… Trouble loading?